What????

2008/7/9

What is sex? What is all about sex in men’s eyes? The nephew of that hat storekeeper’s asked me out for a drink the other day. For me I viewed this as a interesting adventure. As I received his e-mail and we decided to hung out together today! We originally planned yesterday but I didn’t see him and he didn’t see me at the resterant we supposed to meet each other. However, we both hadn’t arranged well and I didn’t evenknow how he looks like. Actually as I walked to the lounge where we planned to meet I saw a guy in a black suit and looked a little bit too heavy... I was so afraid that he was the one I was looking for thus I silently went away. After that, I send an e-mail to him and said that I did go but I didn’t see him so we decided to meet again today! We met with each other in the Joey’s in downtown. At first, we chatted quite happy and talked a lot about our country and our future plans etc. but then we started to talk about having sex. He said that I am pretty and I have a good figure so I should feel confident about myself. He asked me to join the party his friend is going to hold tonight. There will be a lot of alcohol drinks and games played with card also called strip game. That is, the one who lose have to strip his/her clothes off until he/ she is neked. They will havewhole night fuN together. However, I confused to join. Because I am very sure that the situation will definitely out of my control. The guy even said that he wanted to kiss me if I allow him to do so. What a stupid question. Am I a doll that you think you can play? What the #$&#%&*@(?

I think this might be the strongest culture shock that I experience so far. I never get used to the life style of Canadians. They will spend time lingering around in the pub or club which is regarded as a unsafe places in my parents eyes.....and the concept of sex is really "open" here. I am glad that I made a correct choise today:)